Sunday, April 06, 2008

7ilwe?


All you guys out there stop asking the stupid question you always do : 7ilwe? ! La2 bish3a!
I would be talking to a guy, any guy, about a story starting like this: "the other day my friend and i were goi-" Willa binottili and interruptingly asks : 7ilwe?
Ya3ni ma aznakhak ! Ana f aish o inta f aish!
Guys it's insulting , get it through your heads.
It's not funny, it's not appealing that u ask a girl if her friend is pretty.
First of all she's not gonna say yes so that your next brilliant question would not be : "aimta biddek t3arfeeni 3aleha?" nor would it be a no coz then the guy would not be interested in the story anymore.
So raja2i lal jins il akhar inno please spare me your hormones !

9 comments:

Rebel without a Cause said...

This post is insulting....
Thinking of men as mere hormones, "Can you send this to the Queen as a stereotype?", Please spare us your judgement, I agree it's not funny but so are most of our comments, why do these bother you so much?????????

And no we'd be still interested in the story even if you say she's not pretty cause we probably know that you're not telling the truth...

Tololy said...

Rebel without a cause:

I don't think the post is insulting. Lara didn't say men are "mere hormones," and she reported a situation that many girls go through. I also find it fascinating how you referred to yourself as a spokesperson of the male gender by using "we." Who appointed you to judge that most men's comments are not funny? Isn't that being judgmental, which you ironically accused Lara of being? Hah!


I can't speak on Lara's behalf, but I personally find it very irritating to be interrupted with a superficial comment while I am telling a story with a distinct purpose. It happens all the time though with the "7ilweh" question, so now you know why *I* am bothered by it. I suspect Lara feels the same way, and this answers your "why do these bother you so much?" question.

To quote you "And no we'd be still interested in the story even if you say she's not pretty cause we probably know that you're not telling the truth.." Hmm. I thought you said you were not mere hormones, and that you were insulted by the post. Dude, seriously, get your act together! You contradict yourself at every turn!

Bottom line: don't patronize Lara because you don't get what she's talking about.

Lara said...

Tololy you're my new best friend :)

Rebel without a Cause said...

Hey tololy,

If you're good looking and single try to contact me, ME (as mere hormones) might be interested in meeting you.

And I usually refer to myself as we so don't let that bother you...

Rebel without a Cause said...

And your new best friend can tell you stories about me if you like, I wouldn't mind if you interrupted her and asked: "7ilo?" and I'm sure she'll say he's gorgeous. (Or maybe not and then you'd be less interested)

anonymous_male said...

Rebel without a Cause, I agree with you man.

Anonymous said...

Batata :) thank you for expressing your thoughts but not all girls think the way you do by the way, life should be easier, don’t complicate it, it’s not worth it, a small answer of yes or no won’t end the world. For people who commented on the issue at hand:
Rebel without a cause: it’s not insulting most of us are like that (Girls, take it or leave it)
Tololy & Lara: easy :) it’s not worth it, breathe in, breathe out :) why would you care? It’s only yes or no, boys will always be boys, wella you prefer something else? :)
Boys rule :)

Lara said...

Il mushkileh innak batata fa whatever I answer won't work :)

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